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Pre-Marital Questionnaire Form
This questionnaire should be filled out completely and turned in to the church office. After being reviewed, an appointment will be made to meet with a pastor, at this time we will determine whether or not to begin the pre-marriage counseling.
NOTE: We reserve the right to discontinue the counseling and planning process at any time, at our discretion.
*****Both you and your fiancé can complete a questionnaire separately or together, but both must be present for the actual Pre-Marital counseling with the pastor.
Have you set a tentative date for your wedding? ____ If yes, when?_______________________
Name: _________________________________________________ Age: _________________
Home Phone: ___________________________ Work Phone: ___________________________
Fiancé’s Name: __________________________________________ Age: _________________
Have you been married before? ________ If yes, how many times? _______________
If so, for how long? __________
Are you: Divorced _____ Widowed _____ Separated _____
Is your divorce final? _______ If not, why & when? ___________________________________
Do you have children from a previous marriage? ________ If yes, how many? ________
What are their ages? ________________________________________
If you are divorced, what is your custody arrangement? __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
If divorced, why was your previous marriage terminated? __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
How long have you known each other? _________
How long have you been going together? _________________
How long have you been officially engaged?__ _____________
(We require that you have been dating seriously for at least eight months before we will begin counseling)
What brought you together? ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Are you a Born Again Christian? _____________
Briefly describe what it means to be Born Again: ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Do you regularly attend a church? ________
If yes, which one? ______________________________________________________________
For how long and how often? _____________________________________________________
Please answer the following questions as completely yet as briefly as possible. Remember that our goal is to help you prepare for marriage. Please be honest with your responses. Don’t simply write the answers you think we expect.
1. Write a definition of “Love”. ______________________________________________________________________________
2. How do you know you “love” your fiancé? ______________________________________________________________________________
3. How have you prepared for marriage?
Have you read Christian books? _______
If so, please list them. _____________________________________________________
Have you listened to cassette tapes on Christian marriage? _______
Have you attended any marriage classes? _______
If yes, please describe them. _____________________________________________________
Have your parents ever been divorced or remarried? __________________________________
If so, why?____________________________________________________________________
4. What do you expect to receive from marriage that you cannot have staying single? ______________________________________________________________________________
5. Give some reasons why you want to marry your fiancé. __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
6. List any concerns about marrying your fiance.
7. What do you see as your role in the marriage?
8. What do you see as your mate’s role in the marriage?
9. With so many marriages failing today, what guarantee will you have that your marriage will remain successful?
10. How do other members of your family feel about your fiance?
11. How do you feel you are accepted by your fiance’s family?
12. How will you handle conflict or disagreements
______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________
13. Do you plan on having children? If so, how many?
14. Who will discipline your children and how?
15. Who will handle your finances? If there are differences, how will you handle them? ______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________
16. Thoughts and plans for emergency funds? (if appliance repair or emergencies arise) ______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________
17. Creating a special time for dating. What plan do you have?
18. What plans do you have to keep your marriage fresh and alive? ______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________ 19. Sports, TV, shopping and other boundaries and limitations you can be agreed on?
20. Priorities on purchasing items other than using credit cards?
Performance of marriage ceremonies is an accommodation to the body, NOT an obligation. It is understood that entering into pre-marital counseling is NOT an agreement of approval to be married by this pastor or anyone else at this church. We do not claim to be “Professional” Counselors. Our counsel is based solely on God’s Word. Be sure you thoroughly understand our position, before signing below:
I acknowledge that I have read and understand the above, and that all of the information filled in is true and correct to the best of my knowledge.
Signature of future husband Date
____________________________________ _____/_____/_____ Signature of future wife Date
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